Naysayers

November 26, 2007

I know they mean well.

And they’re often right, too. A lot of us fail. Not because of them — no, we can’t blame anyone else. Because most of us just can’t win the battle against ourselves, inside.

But we can’t let their helpful advices become self-fulfilling prophecies. Like I said, I know they mean well, and we should consider to why they say what they what they say. Is it because of something they see in us? Or is it a reflection of their own past or life? Yes, I do consider it.

The tough part, though, is when they conflict with the voice I hear inside. It is so tempting to believe them. After all, they have power of reasons on their side. What do I have on my defense? My gut, my faith… oh please. Be a little more scientific, or reasonable, will you? How am I supposed to counter reason with intuition, in a debate?

Yet that’s what I must do, and I do everyday. Naysayers everywhere. I am attracting them, because I doubt myself. If I didn’t, I’m sure I feel like I’m surrounded by yaysayers.

Wait a minute, though. I actually am surrounded by yaysayers. All along. I just didn’t give any weight to what they’re saying, because although I don’t disagree with them, all the reasons I have, go with naysayers. And my doubts.

I see naysayers everywhere. But friends, you are my proof that my perception has been tempered by my fear. Every time I start to lean the wrong way, one or more of you have spoken up, help me take notice. Though we’re each on our paths to self-realization, it appears that we can’t do it alone.

Naysayers, I know you mean to help me. Thanks for your concerns. By the way, I happen to disagree with you.

And no, I can’t tell you why.

But that doesn’t make me wrong. No, not at all.

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